Showing posts with label Domestic Violence. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Domestic Violence. Show all posts

Tuesday, March 8, 2016

Author Trip to Ecuador Needs YOU!

One of our passions around here is missions - Tracy's had a heart for missions and missionaries since she was a young girl, and she's always considered most opportunities as a mission field. She's honored to work with so many authors who have similar hearts, and when she heard the latest news about Write Integrity author Betty Thomason Owens, she was ecstatic and had to share!

Betty, thanks for joining us today. We’re so excited about your upcoming trip to Ecuador! When do you leave?

The 10-day trip is planned for July 16th through July 26th.

How did it come about?

In a most unexpected way! Our good friends, Bill & Connie McDonald, have been stationed in Cuenca, Ecuador since 1989. A couple of months ago, my youngest son, Todd, became interested in spending his vacation helping the mission efforts in some way. He asked me to go with him. Well, I had always wanted to make that trip, but had relegated it to my “bucket list.” I told him I’d pray about it, but in the back of my mind, I was already making excuses. I could think of at least a dozen good reasons why I couldn’t go.

Todd contacted Bill McDonald, who was stateside at the time, and due to speak at our church a few days later. They agreed to meet after the service and discuss the details.

We went up to speak with Bill, and he spent a few minutes talking to Todd, then turned to me. “And I’d like you to speak at a three-day conference with maybe a hundred and fifty women, possibly as many as five hundred…”

You know that moment in your life when you arrive at a pivotal point and you’re aware that your next words could mean the difference between … well, maybe not life and death, maybe not even success and failure, but something really important. I was there at that moment—and actually felt myself nodding in agreement—when normally, I’d be shaking my head and making excuses.

In advance of this big moment, I’d been actively praying that God would use me, especially in the area of ministry—something I had been called to do at an early age—speaking. I don’t want to arrive at the end of my life with regrets, knowing I’d let myself, God, and others down.

As Bill went on talking about the deepest needs of these women, I became aware that God had been preparing me for some time. How could I say no? In that moment, I knew that if God was truly calling me to do this, He would provide whatever I needed.

What will you be doing?

My main function will be ministering to the women at the gathering. Outside of that, whatever they need me to do. The plans are still in progress at this moment. We’re also looking into translating my books into Spanish for distribution in Latin America. Bill and Connie McDonald founded the Unsion Foundation and Unsion Television. According to Unsion’s website, “Unsión Ministries continues to move toward its goal of reaching 500 million in the Hispanic world, and their church planting movement is growing in momentum.” So, looks like I’ll have plenty to do …

Tell us more about the conditions and why your visit is so important.

What Bill shared with me that day pierced my heart. These women suffer from abuse—sexual, verbal, and physical. What’s more, they live in a country that up until recently, didn’t actually condone such behavior, but didn’t really disagree with it either. It was so widespread, and since they’re “only women” – subject to the men in their lives…you know how that goes.

Bill did say that recent inroads have been made, with the help of the government, and they hope to continue making improvements. I’ve also connected with a young lady who serves at the Hope House in Sucua. The Hope House is a home for young girls from the jungles of Ecuador. How interesting is that? I’m featuring her on my blog soon, and hope to connect with her while I’m there.

I desire to be an encouragement to these hurting women. To deliver a message of forgiveness and hope. I have personal experience with the pain of abuse, and the feelings of inadequacy that dog your life for years afterward. God delivered me, helped me find freedom through forgiveness, gave me hope.

How can we help?

What we need more than any other thing, is the gift of your prayers for me and for our team. In addition, prayers that our specific needs, as well as funds for travel and lodging, will be met as needed. If you’d like to help with those, we’ve set up a GoFundMe page, or you if you prefer, you can contact me through my website contact page or on Facebook.

We’re working on a Spanish version of Annabelle’s Ruth, in preparation for this mission trip. Funds from the sale of the first printing will be for the women’s ministry in Ecuador. To make this possible, we need to raise the funds. The estimated cost of printing five hundred copies is $2,500 - $3,000. If you’d like to contribute to this first printing of the Spanish version Annabelle’s Ruth, you can visit our Giving fundraiser page, and please reference “Annabelle’s Ruth” in the comments.

Owens to Ecuador Go Fund Me link 
Betty Thomason Owens Author Facebook page

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Please join us in prayer for Betty and the team as they prepare, travel, and minister. We'll post some updates as we get them and get a full recap from her when she returns. May God use them mightily!

Tuesday, July 24, 2012

What Can You Do to Offer Hope?


Please welcome today's guest blogger, Dora Hiers of the Carolina Christian Writers.

Hope …

Believing and trusting in a positive outcome. Anticipation for something great.

Hope means something different to each individual. To a football player, hope is scoring a winning touchdown. To a small child, it may mean garnering the praise of a parent. To a young mother, hope means that her child will grow healthy and strong. To a newly married couple, it may represent a long life together. To a cancer patient, hope takes wings for healing. To a person who has just lost their job, hope means finding another one before their savings runs out.

But, what about a battered woman, a victim of an endless cycle of spousal abuse? Sometimes the abuse is physical, but it could also be psychological, financial, or even sexual. What hope does she have? For her, hope seems forever lost, unattainable, always just out of reach.

Did you know:

  • Domestic violence is the leading cause of injury to women in the United States - greater than car accidents and muggings combined.
  • A woman is battered every 15 seconds in the United States.
  • Between 85%-95% of domestic violence victims are women.
  • The health related costs of domestic violence exceed $5.8 billion each year.
  • Approximately 1 in 3 adolescent girls in the United States is a victim of physical, emotional or verbal abuse in a dating relationship
  • On average 3 to 4 women are killed every day by their husbands or partners.

(Stats taken from: CVAN: What is Domestic Violence?)

Abused women can find refuge, a place of hope. Cabarrus Victims Assistance Networks (CVAN) provides a safe shelter for battered women. In 2011, CVAN provided safety, shelter and support to almost 1,400 battered women and their children.

To a resident of CVAN, hope means a safe and comfortable environment for a mother and her children, one where she doesn’t continually have to look over her shoulder, where she can get her first good night’s sleep, without worry or fear. It’s a place to release the guilt and break free from the pattern of coercive control. It’s a place where the sound of yelling or the impact of a fist fades over time. Hope is finding confidence, empowerment, and a renewal of identity. It’s a place where she’ll find support, encouragement, and legal advocacy. Where she’ll hear the sound of her children’s laughter again.

On Saturday, July 14, the Carolina Christian Writers (CCW), a local chapter of American Christian Fiction Writers, came together at the K-Mart in Concord to provide a glimmer of hope for the residents of CVAN. Seven authors sold and signed books, but CCW’s primary purpose was to bring awareness and inform people about CVAN. A list of CVAN’s needs, simple everyday items like paper towels and cleaning products, was distributed. Shoppers purchased enough items to fill the back of an SUV, and others donated funds to supplement CVAN’s needs.

Abuse is not limited to racial, social or economic borders. What if one of these battered women was your sister, your daughter’s best friend, or even your neighbor? What could you do to offer hope?

“Be strong and take heart, all you who hope in the Lord.” ~Psalm 31:24 NIV

For more information on CVAN, click here. 24-Hour Hotline • 704.788.2826
For more information on Carolina Christian Writers, click here.

About the Author: After a successful auditing career, Dora Hiers left the corporate world to be a stay-at-home mom to her two sons. When her youngest son didn’t want her hanging out at school with him anymore, Dora started writing heart racing, God-gracing books. Dora belongs to the American Christian Fiction Writers (ACFW) and the Carolina Christian Writers. Her first inspirational romance, Journey’s End, released with White Rose Publishing in 2011, and her second, Journey’s Edge released in March 2012. White Rose also contracted her third book in the Marshals of Journey Creek series, Journey’s Embrace, and her first short romance, Small Town Treasure. Dora and her husband make their home in Kannapolis, North Carolina. 



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